Meet Danielle Perrotta

Hi everyone, I’m so glad you’re here! I’m a mom, a teacher, and a passionate advocate for neurodiversity. My life brims with family joy, hobbies like ukulele, pottery, and board games, and the warmth of shared meals. But my deepest passion? Creating a truly accessible and welcoming world for neurodiverse kids. This is about belonging, not just inclusion.

My amazing daughter inspires this passion. She’s creative, fun-loving, and so uniquely herself. She also has epilepsy, ADHD, and is on the autism spectrum. These diagnoses, sometimes invisible, shape her experiences. Seeing the world through her eyes has fueled my drive to make a difference. Her perspective is my guiding star.

For 22 years, teaching has been my calling. I cherish the “aha” moments, the silly times, and the daily growth alongside my students. Teaching, talking, and writing come naturally. (My friends say I need a soapbox!) Teaching is about connection, not just curriculum.

Why this blog? Because I care deeply. Because families with neurodiverse kids deserve to be seen and heard. Because we can build a more inclusive world. We need to challenge the very notion of a “stigma-free” community and cultivate the knowledge, compassion, and curiosity for genuine connection. “Stigma-free” is a journey, not a destination.

Here, I’ll share experiences, insights, and resources to illuminate my world, my daughter’s, and the potential of a truly embracing community. I’m eager to connect, learn, and work alongside you to build a more welcoming world for all. Together, we amplify our voices for change.

Okay, let’s talk about what a truly welcoming community looks like for neurodiverse folks.

It’s more than just tolerance; it’s about genuine inclusion. Here’s the breakdown:

It’s more than just tolerance; it’s about genuine inclusion. Here’s the breakdown:

People feel seen and supported by their neighbors and the town where they live.

Basically, you feel like you belong. Your neighbors get you, and the town itself feels like it’s for you, too.

Local organizations provide activities, after-school programs, and camps that are welcoming to neurodiverse kiddos.

Kids need places where they feel understood and can just be themselves. Inclusive programs make a huge difference in their lives, letting them have fun and grow.

Events in town are designed to provide safe spaces to get respite from overstimulating environments.

Think chill-out zones at the town fair or sensory-friendly shows at the local theater. It means everyone can enjoy community events without getting overwhelmed.

Collaboration and partnerships between the government, businesses, and nonprofit organizations is evident everyday.

When everyone’s working together – town hall, local businesses, charities – that’s when real change happens. It shows a community that truly cares.

The fear of stigma, worry of missing out, and the stress of being a full participant in their hometown is greatly reduced.